So let me try to remember things I wanted to say...
The Pits - I was struggling. Really. Did you know that armpits (ha! fooled ya!) are concave and that when you shave them, it's not a guarantee that you'll get all the hair if you're not paying close attention? I didn't. I didn't have any idea until I was drying my hair one morning (after having just shaved the pits) and realized I had missed a whole section on both pits! Whole. Sections. Why? Because my pits are no longer like little mounds under my arm...they are truly pits. Go figure!
Coffee - One of the things I was concerned with prior to surgery was the ability to drink coffee post-surgery. I'm not going to lie. I missed coffee for a while. Now? I don't. Why? I'm drinking coffee. Not nearly as much as I use to (3/4 of a pot a day might have been excessive to begin with) but I am enjoying it one cup at a time. CME got
Clothes - had to break down and go shopping again. I had one pair of pants that actually fit. All others were too big. I bought mostly size 12 pants, but did find one pair of size 10 (TEN!!!) jeans that fit too. Most shirts I wear now are a medium. I can't wrap my brain around that size. LoL Really! I look at the shirt and think, "there is no way that will fit!" But it does. SO strange, yet SO exciting!
Weight - I've not weighed in over two weeks now. I'm not sure why. I don't know if I'm afraid of what the scales will say or if I'm just not as interested in the number. (I'm thinking it's more of the fear factor.) I plan on weighing on Sunday. That seems to be my "weigh-in" day.
Exercise - still my nemesis. I've not been to an exercise class in nearly 2 months. TWO. MONTHS! I really do like the Body Pump class. I just need to get back into the habit of going. I've kind of fallen back into the old habit of "I'm too busy" when in all honesty, I'm choosing not to go. This will change...I cannot do this without a consistent exercise plan. And by do this, I mean make this a life long change, not just another temporary weight loss. Exercise will be key!!!
Shrinkles - UGH!!! That's what I think about that!! The excess skin is nasty. The droopiness of it all is frustrating. Good thing I can hide it under clothes!
Food - I made it through the CHRISTmas holiday fairly unscathed food wise. I made lasagna for our family gathering and ate the stuffing out of it. I chose to avoid the noodles so I could have more of the good stuff! A couple moments of, "I wish I could have a little of that" hit me...like the banana split cake or hot wassail my dad always makes. But for the most part, I didn't feel cheated by not eating the other goodies... fettuccine alfredo, fudge / candies, cookies, etc. Well, I did have 1/2 of an oatmeal cookie my sister made...she made them with Splenda. :) I haven't measured/journaled nearly like I should and I haven't gotten my protein in while on break this week. Both of those need to change. All in all, food was not a focus for me...praise God!
Rings - One of the "smaller" features for me were my hands. At my largest, my ring fingers were a size 7. That's not big for someone whose weight once topped 300 lbs! (did I just admit that in writing?!) I really didn't think I'd lose weight in my hands. I was wrong. A few weeks back, I went to wave at a friend and my wedding rings slid all the way to the top of my finger! That was a clear indicator that I needed to have them re-sized! I was amazed that my ring size is now a 5.5. Though I could wear a 5, getting it over my knuckle was painful so I opted to go for the 5.5 so it wouldn't be uncomfortable this summer.
Reflections - literally. Every now and again, I'll catch a reflection in a window and have to do a double take to realize that it's me. What stands out to me are my legs. I'm use to seeing LARGE legs in a reflection and when I see them now, it shocks me. My legs aren't large anymore and I can even see my knee caps when I'm sitting down. Defined kneecaps. Crazy!
Reactions - I'm still not use to the reactions of others; people who haven't seen me in years; people who had no idea I had surgery. I enjoy their kind words and compliments, but I find myself blushing at their "oozing" comments. (Let me clarify that...these are comments from women! LoL) Also, I'm sure CME is tired of some of the questions he gets asked, "What about your new skinny wife?" "What do you think of her weight loss?" He is so sweet in his responses, which are usually as simple as, "She's the same person to me." or "Her weight doesn't matter to me." He rocks.
Pictures - I've finally started to recognize differences in pictures. Sometimes I see it when it's just me in the picture (like the one below that CME took while I was making my sister's Christmas gift) but I mainly see it when looking at pictures from this time last year. I find it hard to look at the before pictures knowing that those are me! I don't even recognize myself in those. I guess I truly didn't see that version of me.
CME - I can't blog about this journey without acknowledging the incredible love and support that I've gotten from my husband. From the first time sitting in the informational meeting through every step of this process, he has been amazing. He may not always understand how I feel or how some things affect me, but he has always been loving and supportive. I am so blessed to be his wife! 143 CME!
So there's some catching up for the month. I have said this before and I will continue to say it. God has given me the strength to pursue this journey. He has continued to open my eyes to His definition of healthy and He is the one who deserves the glory for the successes I've experienced. I can't imagine how anyone goes through this life...this journey...without Him!
Now...here are some pictures to help me see the difference a year can make.
|Working on my sister's necklace|
|December 23, 2012|
|Christmas Eve 2011 - Notice me trying to "hide" behind the boys as much as possible.|
|With my oldest (and gbaby!)|
|Christmas Eve 2012 - what a difference! Not hiding and look at how tall Parker has gotten!!|
|My every day hero!!! <3|
"I praise you [God] because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well." ~Psalm 139:14